The key to life :)

yes you have guessed it, i have found true happiness :)
but this blog is not about Fi.
Nagydw.

But i have come to share with u the wisdom that i found in a very odd place ( no not in the botton of a reindeers kinickers james :D lmao XD )

private joke i know its rude but that had to be included.

But ive found the secret to true happiness, but im publishing this, blog to help those of you, who havent allready found your own form of happyness.

Rule 1:
Be firm.
Everyone thinks this rule is bull shite, that its more trouble than its worth. But its not, when ur firm, ok it causes arguemtnts, but when those arguements happen, it helps you to realise the people who should and shouldnt have a place in your life. Granted, everyone has arguements now and again, but when it happens over and over and over again, when they keep hurting you, you know its time to cut the ties, and let a person go. Okay, that person might have meant allot to you at points in your life, but that doesnt mean you should have to let urself get hurt over and over again. Its better for you to be happy with the people who dont hurt you. So let people know, that everytime they bitch about you, everytime they stab you in the back. Their getting a step further and further away from you.

Rule 2:
Don't let life pass you by. Try everything, dont be afraid of new things, dont shut out thoughts, dont be afaraid to do things that are against the rules. Ookay fair enough, know your limits, know that line where u as a person stop. but if you have the chance to have fun, take it however and whenever possible, youve not got a lot of life to live, so theres no point wasitng it, so things just becasue u want to, not with a reason, Take risks, Take chances, dont be afraid of your life, its there for you to live.

Rule 3:
Find that person, who can make everything better, no matter what. I have 2 or 3, and for that i count myself as the luckiest person in the world, wether its some one your in love with, someone u love as a friend, family, or someone u barely know at all, everyone needs someone they can share everything with, i personally have nothing, nothing at all that at least one other person doesnt know about, its better for people to know all of you, and hate u for the person you are, than know half of you and love u for the person your not. And when you find that person, itll be someone who will never hurt you, who youll always be able to trust, who will always be there for you, and keep hold of them for all its worth. Their the people who can bring you back from the edge of self destruct.

Rule 4:
Be yourself. Liek i said, its no good being two people, coz then when the person on the inside gets out, u lose the people who u thought u were close too. That will hurt. Save youself the trouble, and be yourself, and let people love you for who you are, becasue if your not being you, then the people around you like a completely different person, and when they start to see through you, your left on your own, without a shoulder to cry on.

Rule 5:
Self appreciation. If you dont like who you are, nobody else will either. So be what your comfortable with, do what you feel is right, and you will find people somewhere in the world who share the same values as yu do. thers no such thing as one of a kind, everyone has similarities, there will always always be some one for you to talk to, about the things you appreaciate and people who appreaciate the same things. Never delude yourself into thinking that your the only one on the world to ever have liked something strange, your deffinately not.

Rule 6:
Your never alone. Never. even if all your friends leave you, your all alone in school and you come home to an empty house, your not alone. theres people to talk to everyhwere, there will always be a person who will talk to you, maybe ur not the closest people in the world, theyll still talk to you.

Rule 7:
Appreciation. Look a the little things. When u catch the bus, just in time. Getting an extra long lie in, Waking up to breakfast already made, having just an ordinary day in school with ur mates, with all ur fave subjects. Those things we never stop to be grateful for. When you appreaciate the little things, its the thing that can turn ur day around, dont focus on an arguement with ur friends, focus on what made you feel better, and itll keep you smilling.

7 simple rules that when followed, can make you the happiest person you know.

as always thought i pose you a question to get those pea sized marshmallowey things working. (their called a brain dumb ass)

how many people can you count, who you know you will remember, and have been important in ur life?

Peace out Gee Gee xx